How Important is a Ruth and Naomi Relationship?

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Modern retelling of Bible stories are a powerful tool. Translating the Ruth and Naomi relationship dynamics into other settings managed to bring home the lessons all over again.  

One of the greatest things about books based on Bible stories is that you aren’t tampering with the original, so anyone who’s nervous about Biblical fiction can safely enjoy it.  

Readers familiar with and enjoying period fiction (*raises hand ️) can get lost in the new story and forget about a key point of the original story, and be startled (not exactly surprised) by it when it happens!  

You can explore the emotions and prejudices under a different light, often discovering that you are more familiar with them than you thought you were.  

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Shadow among sheaves book cover 4 Ruth and Naomi Relationship Principles

The Story of Ruth in the Bible

  The story of Ruth in the Bible is remarkable. It covers so many things. Foreigners, hardship, loyalty, trust, noble character, compassion, loyalty… Before we talk about Modern retelling of Bible stories (specifically Ruth), let’s focus on the original for a minute.  

A Rare Thing, This Ruth and Naomi Relationship

  These two women spent ten years together as mother-in-law / daughter-in-law. Naomi, a foreigner to Moab (and her sons) must have been salt and light in their community. Otherwise, why would Orpah and Ruth have been so determined to go and be widows alone with her in the foreign land of Israel?   Yes, Orpah was reluctantly persuaded to stay in Moab, but not Ruth. If life was terrible at home, I don’t think Naomi would have tried to leave them behind.  

Ruth and Naomi: Love and Loyalty

It’s obvious that Ruth and Naomi love one another. The story of Ruth in the Bible shows that plainly. Their loyalty to each other in doing whatever is necessary to take care of each other is awesome.   From moving to a new country where YOUR people are looked down on, to the hard work of gathering food, to devising a plan to get a husband’s protection, these two make me smile!  

Which Begins the Story of Ruth and Boaz

  Boaz is pretty cool. He seems to obey the laws of charity and kindness because its right. Because of the good in his heart, not because of legalism or pride of reputation.   The story of Ruth and Boaz centers on noble character.  

Ruth and Naomi Relationship Principles

  If we want to have a Ruth and Naomi relationship with our mother-in-law or daughte-in-law (or any other relationship for that matter), we’ve got some very good principles to follow. Here are a few that stand out to me:  

Ruth and Naomi Relationship Principle #1 Loyalty

  Loyalty. Looking Out For One Another. Putting the good of the other person. Being willing to go the extra mile.   Both Ruth and Naomi do this well.  

Related: What Makes A True Friend?

Ruth and Naomi Relationship Principle #2  Character Matters

  Naomi must have had noble character to inspire Ruth to follow her.   Ruth’s character is evident in her sacrifice and hard work. In following Naomi’s instructions…   And then there’s Boaz! (Who noticed Ruth’s character!)  

Related: 6 Noble Characteristics of Hadassah, Queen Esther of Persia

Ruth and Naomi Relationship Principle #3 Perseverance

  Another key to a Ruth and Naomi relationship is perseverance. Ruth persevered through Naomi’s attempts to keep her in Moab. Through back-breaking work. Throgh a likely less than warm welcome. And what a reward. A family, and being In Jesus’s lineage!  

Related: Free Email Bible Study on Walking Worthy of the Calling!

Ruth and Naomi Relationship Principle #4 Trust God

  One of the most important principles is to trust God. Even when things are hard. Stressful. Painful. He is still working.   In the midst of any circumstances you face, in whatever relationships, we can trust God to bring good out of it.        

Related: How to Choose Faith over Fear

Shadow among sheaves book cover, Ruth and Naomi Relationship in Period England

A Remarkable Ruth and Naomi Relationship: Shadow Among Sheaves

Shadow Among Sheaves did not disappoint! The compassion (and lack of it), the fear and love and uncertainty pulled me in hard.  

Rena (Ruth) captured my heart. She did not allow herself the luxury of selfishness or self-pity (for more than a few minutes). Uncertainty, yes. Fear, absolutely. Courage and determination? Yes. Her compassion is something that I want to imitate for sure.  

The idea, the depth of the Ruth and Naomi relationship is amazing!  These ladies went through incredibly hard circumstances. We need to remember that when we think of Ruth’s”happily ever after” that it comes AFTER!  

Specifically watching for the Ruth and Naomi relationship principles in action made the depth of this book so much richer!  

I also enjoyed the character development of Charlie. I became very fond of him before the end of the book. And the Parson, man, he’s good! Keep an eye on him from the beginning!   I recommend this book to anyone who enjoys clean romance, Biblical Fiction or novels set in Victorian England.

About the Book

Book: Shadow Among Sheaves

Author: Naomi Stephens

Genre: Christian Historical Fiction

Release Date: April, 2019

A Timeless, Beautiful Allegory of the Biblical Love Story of Ruth and Boaz

The Great Rebellion of 1857 was a remarkably bloody business. At a time when Britain’s imperial influence in India was sparking brutal clashes on both sides, no one could have expected Rena, an Indian woman, to marry a British officer—nor do they understand her decision to follow her mother-in-law to England after her husband’s tragic death.

Once the two widows are in Abbotsville, the stern yet compassionate Lord Barric attempts to help them despite his better judgment. Soon he is torn between the demands of reputation and his increasing desire to capture Rena’s heart for his own.

Click here to purchase your copy!

The Story of Ruth In the Bible is So Rich!

I hope you’ll give this story a chance, because it is truly amazing! The story of Ruth in the Bible is full of God’s fingerprints and really helps us to grasp how God can work behind the seen, and provide for us on an immediate and eternal level at the same time!

And if you love the story of Ruth and Boaz, Check out this post for a Ruth devotional by a popular Christian Fiction Author!

Until Next Time, Love God, Love Books, Shine The Light!!

18 Comments on “How Important is a Ruth and Naomi Relationship?”

  1. Good review–I always enjoy yours, because they are so well-thought-out. I just started this book today, so am looking forward to getting into it.

  2. I DO want a Ruth and Naomi relationship. I have a close relationship with my daughter-in-law, which is such a blessing. I have no daughters (3 sons), so I love our close bond.

    1. One day. But in the mean time perhaps there’s another relationship that could be built and strengthened with these Ruth and Naomi Relationship Principles?

    1. Awesome! I love the story of Ruth in the Bible, or in England, or contemporary Midwest America (another book I read recently). There is so much there!

  3. This is a great post. I’ve always loved the story in the BIble, and the Ruth and Naomi relationship is truly inspiring to me. Plus, Boaz really does seem like a good guy. Thank you for this!

  4. The Boaz and Ruth love story is one of my favourites in the Bible. However, the relationship Ruth has with her mother in law is indeed selfless and is the relationship I hope to have with my mother in law someday. It is rather inspirational and encompasses lessons we can all learn from and apply to our lives.

    1. It is very interesting, watching Ruth and Naomi’s Relationship unfold in an entirely different setting!

    1. It sure does! And Shadow Among Sheaves does a great job of placing those same truths in a new setting!

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